Books
Most best men have never stood up and spoken to a room full of people before, let alone a room full of the groom’s relatives. The good news is that public speaking is a skill, not a gift, and a few hours with the right book will put you miles ahead of the bloke reading his speech off his phone.
Books for the speech
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Talk Like TED by Carmine Gallo
What the best TED speakers do differently, broken down into techniques you can steal for a five-minute toast.
Find it on AmazonConfessions of a Public Speaker by Scott Berkun
An honest, funny look at what really happens when you stand up to speak, nerves and all.
Find it on AmazonThe Art of Public Speaking by Dale Carnegie
The classic. Old-fashioned in places, but the basics haven’t changed.
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Handy for the mingling either side of the speech, when you’re meeting half the guests for the first time.
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Ready-made structures, jokes and one-liners to get the first draft down.
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For the best man job itself
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Best man guide books
Duties, timings and checklists in one place, for the months between “will you be my best man?” and the last dance.
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Covers every speech on the day, which helps if the groom asks you to look over his as well.
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A safety net of tried-and-tested lines for when the mind goes blank.
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Then there’s the stag. A good book won’t plan it for you, but it will fill the minibus, the pub and the hour before dinner when everyone’s flagging.
For the stag do
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Drinking games books
For the stag weekend, when the dares run out.
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Challenges, forfeits and icebreakers for a group that doesn’t all know each other yet.
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Questions for the train, the minibus or the hotel bar. Loser buys the round.
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For the lad who thinks he’s the funniest man on the trip. Now he has back-up.
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Want help with the words themselves? Our best man speech guide walks you through it from first draft to final toast.