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Terms and conditions

By Oliver Lucas Updated 4 min read

Last updated: 6 October 2026

These terms and conditions (“terms”) apply to your use of iamthebestman.co.uk (the “website”), run by Iamthebestman (“we”, “us”, “our”). By using the website you agree to these terms. If you don’t agree, please don’t use the website.

1. About the website

Iamthebestman is a free resource for best men. We publish advice on best man duties, example best man speeches, speech guides and courses, stag do ideas, destination guides and a stag do price comparison. We may update, change or remove any part of the website at any time without notice.

2. Using our content

Everything on the website, including text, speeches, guides, images, videos, logos and design, belongs to us or the people who license it to us, and is protected by copyright.

  • You may read, print and download content for your own personal, non-commercial use. That includes using our example speeches and speech downloads as inspiration for, or part of, a speech you give yourself.
  • You may not republish, sell, rent or redistribute our content, copy it to another website, or use it for commercial purposes without our written permission.

3. Information and advice

Our guides, ideas and speech material are general information for entertainment and guidance only. We try to keep everything accurate and up to date but we don’t guarantee that it is complete, current or suitable for your circumstances. You’re responsible for how you use it, including judging what is appropriate for your audience on the day.

4. Stag do price comparison and third-party providers

  • Our comparison and package listings show packages, activities and prices offered by independent stag do providers. We are not a travel agent or tour operator and we do not sell, arrange or book any package ourselves.
  • Any booking you make is a contract between you and the provider, on the provider’s own terms. Please read their terms, cancellation policy and any financial protection details before you book.
  • Prices, availability and package details come from the providers, can change at any time and are shown as a guide only. Always check the final price and details with the provider before booking.
  • If you send an enquiry about a package through our website, we pass the details you give us to the relevant provider so they can respond to you.
  • We aren’t responsible for the services, acts or omissions of any provider.

Some links on the website, including links to stag do providers and products, are affiliate links. If you click one and then book or buy, we may earn a commission at no extra cost to you. This helps keep the website free. We may also show advertising. Affiliate relationships and advertising don’t affect our editorial opinions.

The website links to websites run by other people. We don’t control those websites and aren’t responsible for their content, availability, products, services or privacy practices.

7. Things you send us

If you send us a speech, story, comment or other material, or post it on the website:

  • you confirm it is your own work (or you have permission to share it) and that it isn’t unlawful, offensive, defamatory or in breach of anyone else’s rights;
  • you give us a free, non-exclusive, worldwide licence to publish, edit and use it on the website and in connection with Iamthebestman;
  • we may edit, decline or remove it at any time without giving a reason.

8. Acceptable use

You must not misuse the website. That includes trying to gain unauthorised access to it, introducing viruses or malicious code, scraping or copying content in bulk, sending spam, or using the website in any way that is unlawful or harms us or anyone else.

9. Availability

The website is provided free of charge on an “as is” and “as available” basis. We don’t guarantee that it, or any content on it, will always be available or free from errors.

10. Our liability

Nothing in these terms limits or excludes our liability for death or personal injury caused by our negligence, for fraud, or for anything else that cannot be limited or excluded by law.

Otherwise, we are not liable for any loss or damage arising from your use of, or inability to use, the website or any content on it, or from your use of any third-party website, product or service, including any stag do package booked with a provider. In particular, we are not liable for any loss of profit, business or opportunity, or for any indirect or consequential loss.

11. Privacy and cookies

We handle personal information in line with our Privacy Policy, and use cookies as described in our Cookie Policy.

12. Changes to these terms

We may update these terms from time to time. The version on this page is the one that applies, so please check it whenever you use the website.

13. Law

These terms are governed by the law of England and Wales, and the courts of England and Wales have jurisdiction over any dispute, although if you live elsewhere in the UK you may also bring proceedings in your local courts.

14. Contact us

If you have any questions about these terms, please email oliver@iamthebestman.co.uk or contact us.

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